So the last couple of weeks have been very, very interesting. Benjamin really slept well initially, only waking us up one or two times a night. It was that way for about the first 10 days we were home from the hospital. The last little while, though, he’s had some rough nights. I was starting to get a little worried that maybe he was sick, or something, but last night he had a really good night, so I’m not going to worry about it.
He hates having his diaper changed. I think it’s how cold he gets that is the problem. If that’s the case, it also explains how much he hates baths. He’s getting better in that area too. He doesn’t really cry all that much now when we change him, and sometimes he doesn’t cry at all. I’m hoping this trend will continue, because even though I know he doesn’t know what else to do, I don’t love hearing him cry. What parent would like that?
It’s fun to see him get stronger, and begin to learn to control this new body. I’m sure it’s difficult to make it all work the way he wants it too, especially because he’s still just not strong enough to do some of the things he wants to do, like hold his head up all the time and be able to turn over from his stomach. It’s really fun to watch him try though. He’s getting more attentive all the time, too. Things will catch his attention longer and longer. It’s fun to see him watching things, just watching. It makes me wonder what’s going on in his head. He’s started smiling more and more, and sometimes it seems like he actually knows he’s smiling. I don’t know if that’s really the case, but it certainly seems that way.
I go back to work tomorrow. It’s been really nice to be able to spend some time at home with Messy and Benjamin. Messy’s been pushing herself a lot, and is recovering very quickly, so I’m not terribly worried about leaving her home with the baby, she’s well enough off that she can carry the carseat and what-not now, so that’ll be enough. She seems to enjoy each day a little more, too, of which I’m very glad.
All in all, we’re a little more tired, and constantly reminded of how much we don’t really know, but the changes are positive, and we’re never sorry we’ve got our son. I just thought I’d post a little update for those who might actually be reading this for that information.